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"To be happy with a man, you must understand him alot and love him a little. To be
happy with a woman, you must love her alot and try not to understand her at all."

When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed
door that we do not see the one which has opened for us...

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.When you figure out
which it is, you know exactly what to do. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is
usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist
you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically,
emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are. They are there for
the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or an
inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an
end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or
out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our
desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is
now time to move on. When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn
has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you
laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an
unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But...only for a season. LIFETIME
relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to
have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the
person/people (anyway); and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships
and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank
you for being a part of my life.