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Hello to all my fellow Pureravers! I love making new friends and I do my
best to be a good listener. I am a firm believer in The Golden Rule: Treat others as you
want to be treated. Although I am not a raver I subscribe to it's creed. I believe in
PLUR: Peace, Love, Unity, and Respect. I'm a generally happy
and friendly person who prefers to avoid confrontation. Please don't hesitate to message
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The Virgin
August 23 to September 23

Traditional Virgo Traits:
Modest and shy
Meticulous and reliable
Practical and diligent
Intelligent and analytical

On the dark side....
Fussy and a worrier
Overcritical and harsh
Perfectionist and conservative


Virgo is the only zodiacal sign represented by a female. It is sometimes thought of
as a potentially creative girl, delicately lovely; sometimes as a somewhat older woman,
intelligent but rather pedantic and spinsterish. The latter impression is sometimes
confirmed by the Virgoan preciseness, refinement, fastidious love of cleanliness, hygiene
and good order, conventionality and aristocratic attitude of reserve. They are usually
observant, shrewd, critically inclined, judicious, patient, practical supporters of the
status quo, and tend toward conservatism in all departments of life. On the surface they
are emotionally cold, and sometimes this goes deeper, for their habit of suppressing their
natural kindness may in the end cause it to atrophy, with the result that they shrink from
committing themselves to friendship, make few relationships, and those they do make they
are careful to keep superficial.

But the outward lack of feeling may, in some individuals born under this sign,
conceal too much emotion, to which they are afraid of giving way because they do not trust
others, nor do they have confidence in themselves and their judgments. This is because
they are conscious of certain shortcomings in themselves of worldliness, of practicality,
of sophistication and of outgoingness. So they bring the art of self concealment to a high
pitch, hiding their apprehensiveness about themselves and their often considerable
sympathy with other people under a mantle of matter-of-factness and undemonstrative, quiet
reserve. They are still waters that run deep. Yet their unassuming, outwardly cheerful and
agreeable fashion, they can be sensible, discreet, well spoken, wise and witty, with a
good understanding of other people’s problems which they can tackle with a practicality
not always evident in their own personal relationships.

Both sexes have considerable charm and dignity, which make some male Virgoans appear
effeminate when they are not. In marriage they can be genuinely affectionate, making good
spouses and parents, but their love making is a perfection of technique rather than the
expression of desire, and they must be careful not to mate with a partner whose sex drive
requires a passion they cannot match.

They are intellectually enquiring, methodical and logical, studious and teachable.
They combine mental ingenuity with the ability to produce a clear analysis of the most
complicated problems. They have an excellent eye for detail but they may be so meticulous
that they neglect larger issues. Also, although they are realists, they may slow down
projects by being too exact. They are practical with their hands, good technicians and
have genuine inventive talents, Thoroughness, hard work and conscientiousness are their
hallmarks, and they are such perfectionists that, if things go wrong, they are easily
discouraged. Because of their ability to see every angle of a many-sided question, they
are unhappy with abstract theorizing. Appreciating the many different points of view as
they do, they find philosophical concepts difficult, and they vacillate and have no
confidence in any conclusions at which they arrive.

With these qualities, they are better as subordinates than leaders. Responsibility
irks them and they often lack the breadth of strategic vision that a leader needs Virgoans
are essentially tacticians, admirable in the attainment of limited objectives. Their self
distrust is something they project on to other people and tends to make them exacting
employers, though in the demands they make on those under them they temper this attitude
with justice. They have potential abilities in the arts, sciences and languages. Language
especially they use correctly, clearly, consciously and formally, as grammarians and
etymologists rather than for literary interests, yet they are likely to have a good memory
for apt quotations. Although they are well suited for careers in machine drawing,
surveying and similar occupations, they are better fitted for a job in a library or office
than a workshop.

Their minds are such that they need the stimulus of practical problems to be solved
rather than the mere routine or working to set specifications that need no thought. They
are careful with money and their interest in statistics makes them excellent bookkeepers
and accountants. They also make good editors, physicists and analytical chemists. They may
also find success as welfare workers, ministering to those less fortunate than themselves.
They can be doctors, nurses, psychologists, teachers, confidential secretaries,
technologists, inspectors, musicians, critics, public speakers and writers especially of
reference works such as dictionaries and encyclopedias. Both sexes have a deep interest in
history, a feature recognized by astrological authorities for at least two hundred years.
If they go in for a business career their shrewdness and analytical ingenuity could tempt
them into dishonesty, though they usually have enough moral sense to resist temptation.
Female Virgoans may find a career in fashion, for they have a flair for dress, in which
they can be trend setters. In any profession they choose the natives of this sign readily
assimilate new ideas, but always with caution, conserving what they consider worth keeping
from the past. They love country life but are unlikely to make good farmers, unless they
can contrive to carry out their work without outraging their sense of hygiene and
cleanliness.

Their faults, as is usual with all zodiacal types, are the extremes of their
virtues. Fastidious reticence and modesty become old-maidishness and persnicketiness;
balanced criticism becomes carping and nagging; and concern for detail becomes
overspecialization. Virgoans are liable to indecision in wider issues and this can become
chronic, turning molehills of minor difficulties into Himalayas of crisis. Their prudence
can become guile and their carefulness, turned in on themselves, can produce worriers and
hypochondriacs.

Possible Health Concerns...

Virgo is said to govern the hands, abdomen, intestines, spleen and central nervous
system. Illnesses to which its natives are prone include catarrh, cold, coughs,
pleurisies, pneumonia and nervous instabilities. Their natures make them inclined to worry
and this makes them vulnerable to stomach and bowel troubles, including colic and ulcers.
Male Virgoans may have trouble with their sexual organs. Both sexes are strongly
interested in drugs and esoteric cuisine and as their delicate stomachs require them to be
careful about their diet, it is essential that they treat their fascination with exotic
food with extreme care.

LIKES
Health foods
Lists
Hygiene
Order
Wholesomeness

DISLIKES
Hazards to health
Anything sordid
Sloppy workers
Squalor
Being uncertain

Your ruling planet is MERCURY

The colors for Virgo are GREEN AND DARK BROWN

Your star stone is the beautiful, SARDONYX. The Sardonyx can be found with many
different colored bands on it but the one suggested for Virgo is that of the reddish brown
variety. It is in the quartz family and is mined around the world.

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Y A Y ! !
RANDY (Randy Pants)
FRIENDS
LOSING WEIGHT
Friends (TV show)
moonlit walks
PSYCHOLOGICAL THRILLERS
CHATTING
poetry
reading
SOUL CALIBER 2
funny people
SLEEPING
Summertime
Psychology
AMERICAN IDOL
chocolate
women of rock
THE MIND
full pouty lips
hugs & kisses
MIDORI SOURS
learning
straight A’s
AMERICA'S NEXT TOP MODEL
having a car
$$MONEY$$
Realities by Liz Claiborne
dreamy light colored eyes
LONG CURLY EYELASHES
foreign accents
A CLEAN HOUSE
epiphanys
PURERAVE
My birthday
HOOP EARRINGS
snakes
ROAD TRIPS
SEX
Flowers In the Attic
Robitussin Liqui-gels
$$payday$$
amethysts
SINGING
sterling roses
ass rubs
ORGASMS
magazines
REALITY TV
six-packed abs
KINDNESS
presents
Lemon Ajax
CHRISTINA AGUILERA
Horror Movies
BEING IN LOVE
Barnes & Noble
Borders Cafe & Bookstore
FRENCH MANICURES
GQ guys
MAROON 5
smiley faces
Italian charms
SLASHER MOVIES
(day)dreaming
COMPLIMENTS
honesty
sharing secrets
DSL
people who care
random acts of kindness
people who smell good
BABIES
sunshine
frozen yogurt
trying new things
WORDS
The New "Blues"
VIBRATORS
dancing
gel pens
vacations
DR. MARIO
patience
things you can laminate
RESPECT
convertibles
TRUST
being organized
SPRING
real friends
"quotes"
SEROQUEL
Gain laundry detergent
my tattoo & piercings
cuddling
PT Cruisers
Java Chip Frappachinos
helping people
Kelly Clarkson
WAL-MART SUPERSTORE
Best Friends
Toyota Echoes
the colors purple, blue and black
chocolate chip cookies
a >blinking< inbox
beautiful women
Lisa Lavie
NOTEBOOKS
fidelity
cats
SURVEYS & QUIZZES
Polar Bear Paws
HEARTS
icons
meeting random people
falling asleep in Randy's arms
STARBUCKS
corsets
ANGELS
"getting it"
freshly sharpened pencils
Sweet Pea by Bath & Body Works
being understood
NINTENDO DS LITE
men who can express their feelings
FETISH
my naturally curly hair
early (hypo)manic stage
THE NEW SUPER MARIO BROS
Smirnoff Ice - Watermelon
NEW TOMORROWS

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N A Y ! !
TAKING PICS W/O PERMISSION
rudeness
nose pickers
mean people
ARROGANT MEN
feeling left out
liars
BITCHY DRUNKEN SLUTS
getting hurt
being broke 1 day after payday
GOSSIPERS
cuts from shaving
COBWEBS & SPIDERS
running out of laundry detergent
arguing
miscarriages
dusting
DEPRESSION
low self-esteem
being hospitalized
abusive people
Hambuger / Tuna Helper
wintertime
RAIN
the dark
people who just never get "it"
the supernatural/occult
running out of sleeping meds
MATH
women who act like men
the flu
labeling people
maxing out my credit cards
divorce
SOFT APPLES
people who yell
getting up early
RACISTS
"Best Friends" who bail
bad handwriting
LIARS
nasty public restrooms
periods
riding the City Bus
THROWING UP
judgmental people
INSOMNIA
overcast days
FREEZING COLD MORNINGS
the smell of vanilla
regaining back lost weight
HYPOCRITES
dial-up internet
losing touch
MUSTARD
"kids" who think they’re grown
balancing my checkbook
GOING TO THE DOCTOR
when it’s just too quiet
BIPOLAR DISORDER
black jelly beans or licorice
nightmares
uncertainty
MY SISTER-IN-LAW
crying
TANGLES
tap water
COMPUTER PROBLEMS
perverts
assholes who hurt me or my friends
being misunderstood
DENTISTS
computer viruses
frizzy hair
SELF-INJURY
boring people
negativity
selfishness
BEING TOO HOT OR COLD
when it gets dark at 5pm
backstabbers
migraines
BPD
attention-seeking people
CONFRONTATION

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“Maybe I wanted to hear it so badly that my ears betrayed my mind in order to secure
my heart." --Margaret Cho

“And she finally stopped playing their song, when she realized she was dancing
alone.”

“We need others. We need others to love and we need to be loved by them. There is no
doubt that without it, we too, like the infant left alone, would cease to grow, cease to
develop, choose madness and even death.” --Leo F. Buscaglia

“The Bluebird of Happiness long absent from his life, Ned is visited by the Chicken
of Depression." --Gary Larson

“Women wish to be loved without a why or a wherefore; not because they are pretty,
or good, or well-bred, or graceful, or intelligent, but because they are themselves.”
--Henri Frederic Amiel

“I am afraid to show you who I really am, because if I show you who I really am, you
might not like it--and that's all I got.” --Sabrina Ward Harrison

“People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all.
People talk about how great love is, but that's bullshit. Love hurts. Feelings are
disturbing. People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love
if they're afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us up. People try to hide their pain. But
they're wrong. Pain is something to carry, like a radio. You feel your strength in the
experience of pain. It's all in how you carry it. That's what matters. Pain is a feeling.
Your feelings are a part of you. Your own reality. If you feel ashamed of them, and hide
them, you're letting society destroy your reality. You should stand up for your right to
feel your pain.” --Jim Morrison

“I have a huge, active imagination, [and] I think I'm really scared of being alone;
because if I'm left to my own devices, I'll just turn into a madwoman.” --Claire Danes


“God made woman beautiful and foolish; beautiful, that man might love her; and
foolish, that she might love him.”

“Romantic love is mental illness. But it's a pleasurable one. It's a drug. It
distorts reality, and that's the point of it. It would be impossible to fall in love with
someone that you really saw.” --Fran Lebowitz

“I'm not insecure. I've been through way too much f**king sh*t to be insecure. I've
got huge balls. But I've been humbled. That makes you grateful for every day you have.”
--Drew Barrymore

“Somewhere there is someone that dreams of your smile, and finds in your presence
that life is worthwhile, so when you are lonely remember it’s true, someone somewhere is
thinking of you.”

"Hate leaves ugly scars, love leaves beautiful ones." --Mignon McLaughlin,
The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966

"Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly." --Rose
Franken

"Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very
pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older,
our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable."
--Bruce Lee

"Come live in my heart and pay no rent." --Samuel Lover

"I think we dream so we don't have to be apart so long. If we're in each
other's dreams, we can play together all night." --Bill Watterson, Calvin &
Hobbes

"How do we know that the sky is not green and we are all colour-blind?"


"There is a fine line between dreams and reality, it's up to you to draw
it." --B. Quilliam

"Everything you can imagine is real." --Pablo Picasso

"The jealous are troublesome to others, but a torment to themselves."
--William Penn, Some Fruits of Solitude, 1693

"Jealousy is simply and clearly the fear that you do not have value. Jealousy
scans for evidence to prove the point - that others will be preferred and rewarded more
than you. There is only one alternative - self-value. If you cannot love yourself, you
will not believe that you are loved. You will always think it's a mistake or luck. Take
your eyes off others and turn the scanner within. Find the seeds of your jealousy, clear
the old voices and experiences. Put all the energy into building your personal and
emotional security. Then you will be the one others envy, and you can remember the pain
and reach out to them." --Jennifer James

"If a small thing has the power to make you angry, does that not indicate
something about your size?" --Sydney J. Harris

"I've decided that perhaps I'm bulimic and just keep forgetting to purge."
--Paula Poundstone


"It's okay to be fat. So you're fat. Just be fat and shut up about it."
--Roseanne Barr

"Promise only what you can deliver. Then deliver more than you promise."


"To promise not to do a thing is the surest way in the world to make a body want
to go and do that very thing." --Mark Twain, The Adventures of Tom Sawyer,
1876

"If you are going to go through hell...I suggest you come back having learned
something." --Drew Barrymore

"You wouldn't care so much about what people thought of you if you knew how
seldom they did."

"It's not who you are that holds you back, it's who you think you're
not."

"They say that nobody is perfect. Then they tell you practice makes perfect. I
wish they'd make up their minds." --Wilt Chamberlain

“The older you get, the tougher it is to lose weight because by then, your body and
your fat are really good friends.”

“The three words women most want to hear from a man are, 'You lost weight.'"
--Lori Gottlieb

“Every heart sings a song, incomplete, until another heart whispers back. Those who
wish to sing always find a song. At the touch of a lover, everyone becomes a poet.”
--Plato

"'Just say no' prevents teenage pregnancy the way ‘Have a nice day’ cures
chronic depression.”

“I start to think there really is no cure for depression, that happiness is an
ongoing battle, and I wonder if it isn't one I'll have to fight for as long as I live. I
wonder if it's worth it.” --Elizabeth Wurtzel

"We are not the same persons this year as last; nor are those we love. It is a
happy chance if we, changing, continue to love a changed person." --W. Somerset
Maugham

"A man would do nothing if he waited until he could do it so well that no one
could find fault." --John Henry Newman

"The human story does not always unfold like a mathematical calculation on the
principle that two and two make four. Sometimes in life they make five or minus three; and
sometimes the blackboard topples down in the middle of the sum and leaves the class in
disorder and the pedagogue with a black eye." --Winston Churchill

"Slow down and everything you are chasing will come around and catch you."
--John De Paola

"It is a puzzling thing. The truth knocks on the door and you say, "Go
away, I'm looking for the truth," and so it goes away. Puzzling." --Robert M.
Pirsig

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RANDY: You are the best thing that has ever happened to me! I am blessed
just to have you in my life. Because of you I smile wider, laugh harder, and love
stronger. I am happy just to be near you. You are my best friend, lover, confidant,
punching bag, boyfriend, Destiny, psychologist, cuddle partner, teacher, supporter, #1
fan, my heart, soul, strength, life, Lobster and Penguin. Hehe. My dearest Randy, you are
my life and my Soulmate. I love you with all that I have. Now and forever. You make me
feel special, beautiful, loved, cherished, and appreciated. Every morning I wake up, I
count my blessings and remember how fortunate I am to know you. You encourage me, listen
to me, dry my tears, and help me to see that tomorrow can and will be a better day. I have
never been so happy as I have in the last 2 years. I LOVE YOU, RANDY PANTS!!
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